innerkitty: (Warily curious)
Wendy Beauchamp ([personal profile] innerkitty) wrote in [community profile] askandanswer2014-09-21 10:13 pm

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Why is it people are always so eager to fall in love?

[Every time she's witnessed or been involved in love, it's just been a lot of pain for both parties.]

gulistan: (pic#)

[personal profile] gulistan 2014-09-22 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
It's not stupid, per se, it's just driven by what is survival-oriented instead of what is about protecting yourself emotionally. Those are instincts that are more about food than feelings. In fact, one could theorize humans developed those feelings to promote more pair bonding.

I've never had so much as a one night stand, though, so I can only speculate.
Edited 2014-09-22 04:23 (UTC)